Sex

Sex is rarely just physical—it carries meaning, power, and consequence shaped by context and intent. These posts explore sexuality in its broader sense, where desire, connection, tension, and restraint intersect, and what happens between people often reflects far more than the act itself.

Silent Consent: Sexless Marriages Don’t Begin — They Settle

There’s a detail that’s easy to avoid when talking about sexless marriages, and it’s the one that matters most. They don’t always begin with a simple refusal. They often begin with silence. I didn’t want a sexless marriage. That part is simple, and it matters that I say it plainly. But wanting something and enabling […]

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Another Lonely Christmas?

We’re a married couple in our thirties, but we don’t have children. We’re not infertile, so that means our family and friends believe we’ve chosen not to have kids. It’s far from the truth. Sex just doesn’t happen. I fear it’s going to be another lonely Christmas. Last holiday season came and went without romance,

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The Shame of Wanting More

He wakes up again with the familiar discomfort. Not the physical ache — although that’s there too — but the emotional one that sits underneath everything. His wife lies on the far edge of the mattress, facing away. Their backs rarely touch anymore. When he shifts slightly closer, she doesn’t respond. She sleeps. He stares

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A dark tan couch with a white cocktail dress on it. Two shoes lay on the floor, and the word "Brittany" is written on one side.

Tequila. Vodka Red Bull. A Naked Staffer Found on a Minister’s Couch.

Every living room in Australia must’ve watched those two young staffers—Brittany Higgins and Bruce Lehrmann—play out their tragedy in public. We weren’t just spectators; we were jurors, psychologists, and gossip columnists rolled into one. I rarely comment on political matters. There’s enough political content out there to satisfy interested parties several times over. But occasionally,

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