Sex is rarely just physical—it carries meaning, power, and consequence shaped by context and intent. These posts explore sexuality in its broader sense, where desire, connection, tension, and restraint intersect, and what happens between people often reflects far more than the act itself.
The Catholic Church preaches celibacy as sacrifice, purity and devotion. I see something darker: a system that suppresses natural desire, rewards secrecy and carries sexual shame from the altar into the marital bedroom. When an institution controls sex, it does not merely guide believers. It quietly learns to control them.
The Church’s Celibacy: Myth or Ideal? Read More »
Rachel loves her husband, but desire only returns when she closes her eyes and imagines his best friend. As Adam touches her, Mark occupies her thoughts, turning familiar intimacy into something secret and dangerously exciting. The fantasy works too well, and Rachel wonders how long she can hide the truth.
Fantasy Lovers For Sexual Inspiration in a Marriage Read More »
Living in a sexless marriage can mean carrying invisible grief while appearing perfectly content. Choosing a date for change is not an ultimatum, but a compassionate boundary. It creates time for honesty, counselling and mutual effort, while recognising that nobody should be expected to endure loneliness indefinitely in silence forever.
When to Leave a Sexless Marriage: Choosing a Date for Change Read More »
Podcasting from home means battling humming microphones, barking dogs, noisy appliances and the neighbour who fires up his leaf blower at the worst possible moment. Between electrical interference, late-night recording sessions and endless editing, producing The Dirty Rabbit Hole is rarely quiet—but it is always honest and deeply personal.
Podcasting at Home: The Humming Microphone and That Damn Leaf-Blower Guy Next Door Read More »
When intimacy becomes a weapon, refusal can leave wounds no one sees. This provocative essay examines sexual denial inside monogamous relationships, asking when personal choice crosses into manipulation, control and emotional harm—and why couples trapped in long-term sexless marriages often struggle to name what is happening to them clearly.
Sexual Denial. The Silent Sexual Abuse No One Talks About. Read More »
Can celibacy bring two people closer—or quietly teach them to live without intimacy? After seven years of abstinence, one couple reached their wedding night only to discover that desire no longer felt natural. This candid story explores how waiting reshaped their relationship and ultimately helped destroy their marriage forever.
The “No Sex Before The Wedding Day” Rule Destroyed Our Marriage Read More »
The author expresses disappointment with SoundCloud’s podcasting capabilities, feeling the platform lacks understanding of speech-focused audio. After initial enthusiasm, they found minimal audience engagement while achieving better results on other platforms like Spotify and Apple. The author’s experience underscores SoundCloud’s shortcomings for podcasters despite its commendable features for musicians.
Stop Hounding Me Soundcloud! I Was Only Looking! Read More »
The LGBTQIA+ acronym keeps growing, shrinking and reshaping itself in the name of inclusion. This satirical piece considers what happens when language becomes too crowded to remain useful—and why the humble plus sign may be doing more work than every letter placed before it.
LGBTQIA+ Humour: Acronym Grows, Gets a Chop, And Then a Wildcard To Save Time. Read More »
Past lovers leave more than memories. Some teach playfulness, some reveal sexual mismatch, some expose desire we didn’t know we had. This reflection gives thanks to the women who shaped one man’s understanding of love, lust, friendship and letting go — without shame, regret or a need to return.
Let’s Give Thanks To Our Past Lovers Read More »
