Sex is rarely just physical—it carries meaning, power, and consequence shaped by context and intent. These posts explore sexuality in its broader sense, where desire, connection, tension, and restraint intersect, and what happens between people often reflects far more than the act itself.
A husband secretly fakes climax to avoid pregnancy while sustaining intimacy in a sex-averse marriage. This provocative psychological exploration unpacks deception, desire, control, and moral tension, asking: when intimacy is manipulated for survival, what truths are sacrificed—and what happens when the illusion finally fractures?
Man Fakes Orgasms. Wife is No Wiser. Read More »
Let me qualify what I have said above by saying that if you want sex every night and your spouse only wants sex three times a week, you are not living in a sexless marriage. If you want sex every night or three times a week and your spouse wants sex once a month, you
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Intimacy and desire are not the same force—and most relationships quietly prove it. As familiarity grows, attraction often fades, replaced by routine, silence, and unspoken agreements. This psychological exploration reveals why desire shifts, where it goes, and what remains when connection survives without the tension that once held everything together.
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I’ve had a wonderful time recording audio excerpts of my novel SEETHINGS and placing them on the Internet (Spotify) for your ears to enjoy. It’s been a long time since I first added audio to the Internet. In the beginning, I messed around with Soundcloud – many years ago. A friend put me onto it
SoundCloud For Podcasting? What about Apple or Spotify? Read More »
Before the phrase “Does Body Count Matter?” became popular, “Don’t Kiss and Tell” was the well-practised alternative. It was more acceptable not to speak of past lovers than to proudly broadcast the encounters in a numbers wrap-up. Once upon a time, in a land filled with scandalous secrets and forbidden whispers, there existed a phrase
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Intimacy in marriage often fades quietly—through stress, routine, and unresolved tension—long before couples realise it. This guide explores why connection weakens, the signs to watch for, and practical ways to rebuild emotional and physical closeness.
Intimacy in Marriage: How Connection Fades, Why It Matters, and How Couples Rebuild It Read More »
I married a woman who cannot stop working. She never stops. Never. To some, that sentence might sound like admiration, and in some ways it is. She is efficient, disciplined, and capable in a way that makes most people look disorganised by comparison. At work, I imagine she must be formidable. At home, she is
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Not everyone clicks together perfectly on the first night of their marriage. Sometimes the sex just doesn’t work right. It happens more than you think. Let’s use the phrase “purity movement” in the next paragraph. It’s where sexual abstinence is meant to make sex a pinnacle moment of a newlywed’s honeymoon night. It’s supposed to
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Some relationship stories are easy to tell. Others live in the quiet corners of people’s lives where embarrassment, confusion, and loneliness hide. That is the territory explored by The Dirty Rabbit Hole Podcast. While many podcasts aim for entertainment or surface-level advice, this one deliberately walks into uncomfortable territory: relationships where intimacy fades, marriages that
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There’s a detail that’s easy to avoid when talking about sexless marriages, and it’s the one that matters most. They don’t always begin with a simple refusal. They often begin with silence. I didn’t want a sexless marriage. That part is simple, and it matters that I say it plainly. But wanting something and enabling
Silent Consent: Sexless Marriages Don’t Begin — They Settle Read More »