A sexless relationship isn’t defined by absence alone, but by what that absence creates—distance, doubt, and quiet redefinition. These posts explore relationships where intimacy fades, and how emotional, psychological, and behavioural shifts emerge when connection is no longer expressed through touch.
Sexless marriage content makes up my podcast. A good chunk of my stories contain it, too. So, I have picked up a microphone and put a few thoughts down for your listening enjoyment. Plug in your earphones, click play and enjoy. I discuss love, marriage, sex, and share a bit about my writing, weaving these
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I don’t know why my lover’s kisses are so hot. I really don’t. They are only kisses. Just lips. Two people. A passionate moment. Nothing. Oh, who am I kidding? I know why. I don’t want to admit the reason. It’s a terrible one. Pathetic even. I needed that kind of kiss again. I missed
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Does this make me a bad person? Yes, I know I shouldn’t do it, but I can’t not do it. My fantasy is the only thing that gets me through sex. My imagination gives me the strength to continue when reality demands something else. We see stories of sexual fantasies and, yes, some talk about
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He wakes up again with the familiar discomfort. Not the physical ache — although that’s there too — but the emotional one that sits underneath everything. His wife lies on the far edge of the mattress, facing away. Their backs rarely touch anymore. When he shifts slightly closer, she doesn’t respond. She sleeps. He stares
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Today’s episode dives into a topic that many couples find challenging – discovering your marriage is sexless. We’ll explore the three main issues associated with this situation and discuss effective strategies to address and overcome these challenges. It can be unsettling to realise that your marriage has become sexless. While some of us are still
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“She’s just not as freaky as she used to be,” he said in a letter that was filled with disappointment and disdain. Here I was reading yet another letter from a man who was frustrated with how his sex life was going, and he had good reason to feel discontented. The beginning of his relationship
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Sex doesn’t vanish in a marriage because people stop caring; it often fades because bodies change, and nobody names it. In this week’s episode of The Dirty Rabbit Hole Podcast, we unpack three quiet culprits behind sexless stretches: shifting hormones, wrecked sleep, and the fine print on SSRI antidepressants. You’ll hear why menopausal tissue changes
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A major new study has looked at why some people go through life without ever having sex. Researchers Abdel Abdellaoui, Laura Wesseldijk, Brendan Zietsch, and Karin Verweij examined data from nearly 400,000 people in the UK and 13,500 in Australia. Their findings shine a light on how personal traits, environment, and even genetics play a
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Lack of intimacy in marriage significantly affects a woman’s emotional and physical well-being. It can lead to low self-esteem, loneliness, decreased libido, increased stress, and resentment. Additionally, it may cause communication gaps, negative body image, potential infidelity, and even divorce, ultimately straining both the relationship and personal health.
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I have been with the same woman for 11 years. We are in our mid-40s, and our sex life seems to have come to an end. I was always the one to instigate sex, and although I was usually rejected, I kept trying. This was compounded after the birth of our children four years ago;
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