A sexless marriage rarely breaks overnight—it fades through silence, avoidance, and unmet need. These posts explore the emotional and psychological strain of intimacy lost, where connection becomes obligation, desire turns inward, and what isn’t shared begins to define the relationship.
Dinner conversations can strengthen friendships—or make everyone wish they’d stayed home. Discover why one seemingly innocent question about sex and having children left Samantha desperate to change the subject, and explore the intimate topics that are often best kept away from the dinner table.
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If social media is to be believed, every healthy couple is permanently trapped in a montage sequence. They’re kissing on beaches, laughing over wine, climbing into spas together, posting anniversary tributes every second week and behaving as though the honeymoon period never ended. Their lives appear fuelled by constant passion and relentless emotional intensity. The
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An affair built purely on sex begins to fracture when validation becomes more addictive than intimacy itself. She didn’t love him. She barely liked him. Yet his refusal to say “I love you” consumed her completely. Beneath the lust, ego, control, insecurity, and emotional dependency quietly took over everything.
You Should Be in Love With Me (but I definitely don’t love you) Read More »
We sit together, but the silence deafens us. An unhappy marriage rarely breaks in a moment—it wears down slowly, through distance, restraint, and unspoken truth. Coping isn’t about fixing everything. It’s about surviving the weight of what remains when connection fades and routine quietly takes its place.
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Celibacy promises control, clarity, and virtue—but beneath restraint, tension can grow. Desire doesn’t disappear; it waits. When intimacy is postponed, frustration, doubt, and emotional distance can take root. This piece explores the quiet cost of abstinence—and whether delaying sex reshapes connection, compatibility, and the truth about what we really need.
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Fourteen years into a relationship built on patience, promises, and restraint, Mitchell finds himself trapped in a marriage without sex. What began as respect for her beliefs has hardened into silence, frustration, and regret. Now, in a dead bedroom with no escape, he questions everything he once chose to endure.
Personal Dead Bedroom Story Read More »
A sexless marriage affects us in many ways. The silence, the distance, the unanswered questions. You search for answers, for someone who understands, but find almost nothing. This piece confronts that absence, giving shape to what you’re living through—and why the hardest part isn’t the loss, but not knowing what to call it.
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A husband secretly fakes climax to avoid pregnancy while sustaining intimacy in a sex-averse marriage. This provocative psychological exploration unpacks deception, desire, control, and moral tension, asking: when intimacy is manipulated for survival, what truths are sacrificed—and what happens when the illusion finally fractures?
Man Fakes Orgasms. Wife is No Wiser. Read More »
Let me qualify what I have said above by saying that if you want sex every night and your spouse only wants sex three times a week, you are not living in a sexless marriage. If you want sex every night or three times a week and your spouse wants sex once a month, you
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I’ve had a wonderful time recording audio excerpts of my novel SEETHINGS and placing them on the Internet (Spotify) for your ears to enjoy. It’s been a long time since I first added audio to the Internet. In the beginning, I messed around with Soundcloud – many years ago. A friend put me onto it
SoundCloud For Podcasting? What about Apple or Spotify? Read More »