Man Fakes Orgasms. Wife is No Wiser.

No. No. Not right. That’s a joke, right? Not possible. No! And why do it? And why doesn’t the wife know? Is she stupid? Dumb story. Didn’t happen.

It did and still does.

For goodness ‘ sake! Let’s say I believe this absurd story. Why do it in the first place?

First, it’s true.

Second. It can be done. But the conditions have to be just right to make the performance believable.

Read on for the rest of the answers you seek. And read the words slowly. The details are important.

It’s a well-known fact that women fake it. Reasons vary, but mostly they are said to serve the male ego. But a man doing this to a woman is illogical. It doesn’t serve a female ego. Feminine egos don’t work that way.

Sure. That’s true.

There’s that other element. She’d know if he was faking! She’d definitely KNOW!

From a male perspective, it doesn’t make sense to fake. He does what he does for REAL. It’s not like he HAS to fake it. He NEEDS it to be real!

Steady. There’s more detail behind the detail. Keep reading.

Mitchell Felding claims that he has been withholding his ejaculation to stop his wife from falling pregnant. Get this: She doesn’t know he’s doing it. She’s totally clueless, thinks he’s done the business he needs to do, and accepts how it gets done.

It’s true!

Rather than releasing inside his wife, he ‘acts’ the part. He pretends to build up, and then, after obligatory thrusting and heavy panting, he tenses, stops, and then withdraws. She thinks he’s done. She rolls away from him. He heads to the bathroom to shower and finishes off there.

How does she not know?

Now, about those conditions I mentioned.

This is a crucial part that makes all the difference.

According to Mitchell, his wife, Samantha, a practising Catholic, was sexually inexperienced when they met.

The couple never engaged in coitus until they married. Sam was a virgin, and condoms hid the outcome of each sexual encounter.

Mitchell says Sam has always been sex adverse and refused to look down there during and after sex, resulting in her being unable to identify the difference between sperm and any other fluid produced during intercourse. She simply refused to know. Shame and guilt made and kept her naive.

Uh-huh! Understand now?

Now we’re getting close!

She knows something about sex, but not enough to know the deal!

Ok. I get that. But why does the husband do it?

This is the crunch question, right? So I asked it. I had to. I wanted to know. Wouldn’t you?

Mitchell replied, “Sam wants a child, and now that I’ve got something she wants, she is finally initiating sex. It’s fantastic. She’s coming to me like a wild woman. I’ve never seen her like that before, and I love it. I also know that once she falls pregnant, we’ll go back to being abstinent. I don’t want that yet. I’m not ready to let it go.”

So what do you think? If it’s real, is their marriage doomed?

Perhaps, but there’s more going on. Much more.

–Michael Forman