Sex

Sex is rarely just physical—it carries meaning, power, and consequence shaped by context and intent. These posts explore sexuality in its broader sense, where desire, connection, tension, and restraint intersect, and what happens between people often reflects far more than the act itself.

The Church’s Celibacy: Myth or Reality?

The Church’s historical child sex abuse revelations underscore the availability of sex within the Clergy. Abuse of power, cover-ups, and the misconception of celibacy perpetuate the problem. The Church’s insistence on celibacy conflicts with its members’ actual behaviors, leading to systemic issues. Removing the celibacy law could improve the Church’s future and mitigate misconduct.

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Choosing A Date For Change – A Sexless Marriage

In navigating a sexless marriage, recognizing the signs is crucial. Setting a specific date to address the issue, with honest communication and introspection, is key. Couples must explore the underlying reasons, be open to seeking professional help if needed, and commit to prioritizing intimacy. Choosing a date for change is the first step toward reclaiming the connection that initially brought them together.

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Is Sexual Denial Actually Sexual Abuse?

Denying a spouse sex can stem from various reasons, but it’s crucial to differentiate consensual decisions from coercive or manipulative behavior. Lack of sexual intimacy may be due to health or communication issues, but consistent withholding for control or manipulation is emotional abuse. It can lead to rejection and trauma for the denied partner. Open communication is essential, and consistent refusal without valid reasons may signal underlying relationship issues needing professional intervention.

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I Wish I Had a Proper Sound Proof Room!

Numerous challenges are faced when recording podcasts from a suburban home, including background noise from neighbors, appliances, and outdoor activities. Despite using post-production techniques and a noise filter, issues like a mysterious hum persist due to nearby solar panels. The podcast itself delves into serious topics such as marriage, intimacy, and affairs, offering personal experiences and advice to listeners. Despite the challenges, the author invites readers to listen, sharing a link to the podcast. This showcases the difficulties of recording in a non-professional setting, emphasizing the content’s authenticity.

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The “No Sex Before The Wedding Day” Rule Destroyed Our Marriage

We thought abstaining from sex would bring us closer, but what actually followed was one nightmare after another. It didn’t work out. Seven years. That’s the answer to your question. Before we tied that knot, we had seven years of celibacy. We weren’t intimate in that way for seven years. It’s crazy, I know, but

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