Some partners use various excuses to avoid sex, leading to dry spells. This becomes an issue when one desires more than the other. The podcast discusses a spouse’s unique method to avoid sex, highlighting the impact of excuses on relationships and intimacy. It emphasizes the need for open communication and addressing underlying issues.
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I have haunted relationship forums and scoured books and articles about monogamous relationships for a long time. One relationship pattern that appears over and over is the sexless relationship. I created an online survey for the higher drive partners in sexless relationships for this series of blog posts because my hope is that by hearing
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After 11 years together, Kathleen* and Scott are, in many ways, the envy of their friends. “We can still spend 24 hours a day with each other and never get bored,” says Kathleen, a 34-year-old teacher in New York City. “We’re entirely 100 percent supportive of each other.” But behind the scenes, they share a
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Let me qualify what I have said above by saying that if you want sex every night and your spouse only wants sex three times a week, you are not living in a sexless marriage. If you want sex every night or three times a week and your spouse wants sex once a month, you
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I have been with the same woman for 11 years. We are in our mid-40s, and our sex life seems to have come to an end. I was always the one to instigate sex, and although I was usually rejected, I kept trying. This was compounded after the birth of our children four years ago;
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Reader question: “I am a woman who has always appeared to be “good in my marriage” I was married for over two decades and have a daughter. My marriage was pretty much sexless, but we’ve been divorced for five years. I had a raging-hot uncommitted relationship after that lasted four years — but went nowhere.
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Today’s episode dives into a topic that many couples find challenging – discovering your marriage is sexless. We’ll explore the three main issues associated with this situation and discuss effective strategies to address and overcome these challenges. It can be unsettling to realize that your marriage has become sexless. While some of us are still
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“She’s just not as freaky as she used to be,” he said in a letter that was filled with disappointment and disdain. Here I was reading yet another letter from a man who was frustrated with how his sex life was going, and he had good reason to feel discontented. The beginning of his relationship
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Dear Cheryl: My wife and I have two little kids. When we come home from work, we’re busy with them. There’s dinner, homework, baths, stories and bed. Our day planner is full. That leaves 90 minutes or so to straighten up, do laundry and catch a little TV. By that time my wife is exhausted,
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Marriage is a sacred bond that involves love, trust, and intimacy. Marriage offers us so many life-enhancing gifts. Number one on the list is intimacy, both sexual and emotional. However, some couples will go through phases where there is a lack of intimacy in the marriage. Where does this come from, and what can women
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